Hi Dr. Charley,

I’ve been married awhile, but I really like giving my husband BJs. When I’m with other wives, they always complain about it like it’s a chore, and I once read that no woman really likes to give BJs. So why do I like it? The other problem is that giving him so many BJs gives me TMJ – LOL! Is there something I can do so doing it doesn’t mess up my jaw?
Anonymous

There’s nothing wrong with your desire to give your husband a blow job—oral sex. As with anything else in life, desire to do so is key. So many women enjoy fellatio others don’t. To key is to want to do it.

Yes, often the seaman doesn’t taste great however there are a few products on the market to help mast the taste; and of course, you could always bring your lover to the point of ejaculation and capture it with your hand, have him mark your body with it, or let him release into a towel.

TMJ…well that comes with the territory. Chuckles. To alleviate any discomfort it’s all about the practice. You can take two aspirins before time as well to alleviate any discomfort. (Not prescribing medication here just noting what you’d do anytime you have minor discomfort with muscles.)